WOMEN APPROACHING MEN!

So its 2010 and are us women still in the frame of mind of men approaching us? I mean yes we are independent and we make our own money and doing it all on our own but when it comes to making the first move we are still a bit TABOO! I love a man to approach me and to say what he means but is it wrong for me to see a good looking man across the room and approach him? Ladies tell me what you think!